Trust & safety

Built to feel safe.

A smaller, more considered app makes room for stronger safeguards. Here’s how we approach it.

Verified sign-up
Joining requires a verified phone number, and you must be 18 or older.
No messages until it’s mutual
Chat opens only when two people like each other. Until then no one can message you, so there are no unsolicited openers.
Block, report, pause, or leave
You can block or report anyone, pause your profile, or delete your account at any time. Reports go to a moderation queue that can suspend accounts.
Private by default
Your interview and the compatibility profile built from it are kept private and used for matching. You approve a short public summary before anyone sees it.